I’ve been interested in psychology since high school and have worked in caretaking roles throughout my life, but as a first-generation college student I wasn’t fully aware of how to decide on a major or how to turn that major into a career.

When I finished my undergraduate degree, two months into the pandemic, I was burnt out academically, so I returned to working in the service industry. Finally, five years later, I felt emotionally ready and mature enough to undertake a graduate degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling. I wanted my work life to reflect my values, and this career path checked all the boxes.

I applied to the University of Southern Maine because I want my professional career to culminate in starting my own business. In five years, I aim to open a private practice after I gain experience in community mental health, learn best practices in the field, and achieve competence working with a variety of populations. To that end, I’ve been working for Sweetser at a crisis unit since January of 2025 and volunteering on a sexual assault helpline since May of 2024.

I’m so grateful that I was chosen as a recipient of the Gilda E. Nardone Scholarship. The funds awarded will help offset the cost of my education, which is incredibly valuable to me as my FAFSA score reflects the highest level of financial need. I work several jobs and serve as a graduate assistant, but the cost of attending school has been difficult to manage. The only aid offered by the federal government is student loans with an interest rate over 8%, without a grace period. I had been researching scholarship options persistently and am so thankful to have found the Gilda E. Nardone Scholarship and to have taken an applicable class, “My Money Works” through New Ventures Maine.

During my counseling internship and after graduation I want to work with women navigating their identity as it pertains to motherhood and couples who want to work toward strengthening their relationship. My dream is to specialize in these two overlapping areas. Grief is commonly experienced by new mothers who feel a sense of lost autonomy. Due to stigmatization, they are often left with few resources for support during this pivotal transition. I would like to help bridge this gap in my work.

If I were to give advice to others, I would say: don’t rush. Take a moment to breathe. I waited to return to school until I felt like I could show up fully and intentionally. Sometimes we want to make a change, but we aren’t ready to take the leap. In time, you will be more well-resourced to get where you are going. I’m glad I am where I am now. Each part of my journey has informed who I am today.